marriage meltdown

i was talking to a friend at bukit panjiang plaza’s mac yesterday night... one of my close friend since my poly days… he is on the verge of marriage breakdown… i don’t know how to explain it…it’s a long story… its all about giving too much and not be able to received… from my own decipher engine… a person cannot continuously give without receiving anything back… love is like the air… you need to breath-in….so you can breath out… else you will suffocate… anyway… all of us told him to give himself some time to pull the plug… make a decision… too painful…its just not worth it…